this side of me

This is the other side of me.. you are welcome to join me in my world, which before i never let anyone enter. I have created a world only for my self, and now, i am slowly letting people discover the real me,.. those who don't know me will never understand me.. for some i am deep.. for some shallow... for some i am childish, yet for some i am mature enough to deal with issues in life...ask me if am capable of dealing with my own issues in life... hahaha.. i am still learning to...and there are lots of improvement.. life is a process..a continuing process same as learning...

you will never know what will happens next...

so, what i wanna do is enjoy every moment... for whatever that you have in your life right now will not lasts forever even if you will intend it to...

time is fleeting..

learn to be happy...

appreciate the people in your life right now for they are just serving their purpose as to why you have them in your life..

World, this is ME!

Sometimes sure of my self..

and there are times... confused! :-)

Just a thought: Does being happy with yourself mean being happy alone?

I hear all the time, "You don't need anyone, just be happy with yourself." but does that mean being happy BY yourself? what if you are happy with yourself truly happy with the way you are, but you just don't like feeling your alone in your own life, you feel a strong need to share your life with someone special. Does that mean your not happy with yourself? I thought it was only human nature to desire a mate. So does being happy with yourself mean being happy alone?


Being happy with yourself, and being happy BY yourself are too incredibly different states of mind. Being happy with yourself usually means that you have a healthy self image, are proud of what you've accomplished, and are overall happy with the choices that you've made and the life that you've chosen. Being happy BY yourself, is something I have not seen many people accomplish, at least not for any great period of time. Desiring a mate is most certainly human nature, humans are social creatures, we rely on each other to stimulate our lives, bring meaning to our creation, and give us prolonged happiness that is an entirely different kind of happiness than self-happiness. I can tell you that being happy with yourself is incredibly important in a relationship-- happy breeding happy- because it allows you the independence and freedom from constantly relying on others to make you happy. No one should have to be alone, but everyone deserves the right to choose, create, and maintain their own happiness.

so?